Can I be real, like really real🙈, and vulnerable with you….? You know what, I’ll just be real.
So this is directed to all the moms out there who assume that they know their “little”girls (teen princesses), the ones who tell themselves that their babies tell them everything and anything …This is for you!! ( If your daughter does these and you’re sure about it then you’re off the hook. ) But I’m speaking to these moms 👀
From the perspective of a daughter, this is purely my opinion so I suggest you speak to your daughters after reading this…
I/we want you to hear us out, to listen to us without judging us or telling us how wrong we are or how to fix our mistakes, especially when we’re hurting… we want you to be understanding and see things from our point of view.
Here’s my story:
I am the type of girl who hides her pain and emotions from her mom, the girl who pretends to be okay in the home where she should feel free… Only because I fear that whenever I tell my mom something and cry about something she doesn’t really get, she will judge me then tell me what to do and I get that you want the best for me but sometimes I need a hug, I need you to tell me that it’s going to be okay and that you’re here for me. I need you to let me cry on your shoulder… Mom I need you. 😢😢😢
Mommies, I don’t want you to live with your daughters not knowing what happens in their lives and how they feel and what makes them happy or sad or angry, what they are passionate about and what they don’t like… we don’t care about favourite colours and foods, we wanna get real with you and not feel like we need to go to someone else to cry on and for hugs… we need you .
Another thing, strict mommies ( even mine) .. everything I(we) do, I(we) do it for you, to make you proud and we want you to see that you believe in us (me).
Mommy if you see this, I want you to know that, yes, I am grateful for every sacrifice and all that you’ve done for me but I need you to believe in me, my blog and my dreams. I want you to be able to show how much support you have for me because I feel like you don’t believe that I have what it takes to be what I want to be. I want you to let me vent without interrupting and I need you to hug me sincerely and tell me “we’re going to get through this together “….
So From this venting of mine…. (of which there may be more) I suggest that you speak to your daughters and to your sisters, if you are a big sister. Hear them out, let them speak and get to know them for real .
*please don’t judge me yall*
And share with all moms ( or all those who are in mom-position)
Have a blessed day and weekend yall❤